Op-Ed: Impact of Incest Lingers for Male Victims as Well

I think the author, Mr. Coyne has an excellant suggestion that is long overdue. It is a know fact that young men and boys who are sexually molested have a high rate of becoming molestors themselves. (not all, of course, just a large percentage) Maybe if these young men could get some mental health help we could stop the cycle. I am not taking about young men that are homosexuals, I am talking about sexually molested boys who grow up and become molestors themselves. Why does this happen, I am not sure, but counseling would help them figure things out and heal from their trauma.

I am sorry for any person who is affected by a disturbing sexual experience including adults. Adults need to try to be strong but children are off limits. Nothing however in this life is black or white. When I was about 16 years old, I had the opportunity to have a sexual encounter with a priest. My mother figured something might go on and ruined what would have been a good experience for me. I am only speaking for myself and at this age regret that my mother felt she had to sabotage my fun. If it were an adult woman she would have thought it was ok. She considered that normal and would have found it amusing that her 15 year old son had sex with a 35 year old woman. I was attracted to men anyway and I would have liked to have sex with an adult male. Even when I was young I wanted sex with someone older than me. How much older could have been about 20 years older. One size does not fit all (a bit of a pun) especially for teenagers that are ready, but it is for the teenager to decide. People think that everything is set because they are scared of the unknown. When I was even younger about 12 or 13 my brother was about 14 or 15. He knew how to develop film and made his own little dark room. The result was children making child pornography and we all had a blast. Most of our parents are dead now. They could have never known the fun, excitment, laughs and erotic feelings that we were fortunate enough to experience. This happened almost forty years ago and I wish I had the pictures. Unfortunately my brother destroyed them. We also used to have guys in the neighborhood that would flash the young girls around 13 or so. They would laugh their asses off until their mothers became hysterical and transferred their hysteria to the daughters. Most of the girls loved it because the men never got out of the car. They would just drive around with their pants down or off. So when it comes to sex never go on a band wagon against things. I would also suggest that young girls just watch the men from a good distance and certainly not get in the car. This way they can have fun memories of the flashers that can be quite entertaining.

Speak out! Jehovah’s Witnesses go door to door as part of their faith to recruit converts,this includes members who are convicted pedophiles! Pedophilia is covered up in the Jehovah’s Witnesses on a scale worst than the Catholic priest scandal.Not only do they deny it but the Watchtower has instructed the Kingdom Hall elders to go after all whistle-blowers. The JW’s exploit an obscure 2,000 year old bible passage and demand that there be TWO witnesses to every act of child abuse committed by a Jehovah’s Witness.This fosters a code of silence and a “pedophile’s paradise” in the Jehovah’s Witnesses. The ‘Two Witness’ Take-Down is a subterfuge exploited by Jehovah’s Witnesses that is selectively enforced by elders who play favorites and fast and loose with the truth,an excuse to ignore and suppress evidence at whim. Learn more http://www.silentlambs.org Jehovah’s Witnesses children’s advocacy site