How to Attract the Girl of Your Dreams: Tips on Flirting

Dating should be really fun for both of you. Think ahead!

Finding the perfect mate is no small challenge, but is very possible!

(SALEM, Ore.) - Lots of men think that there is nothing difficult in flirting with women. Those guys have probably been born with a so-called “gift from nature”. However, it does not mean that all the rest of their competition will stand aside. It's important to make a great first impression, and to keep her attention.

Good flirting can be an acquired talent. The only thing a man needs is practice.

Each love story starts with a romantic or trivial, no matter, acquaintance. One may meet a woman of his dreams in a church, a museum or even among hot Ukrainian brides on a dating website. Despite the place of acquaintance, she will like this man or not after the first experience of communication. It is when flirting comes to the rescue. Flirting is one very effective way to communicate with a person with the aim to attract her or him. This is a very generic definition, however, it precisely describes its intention.

How to Flirt with a Girl?

• Be confident and sure of yourself. A confident man is always in the center of attention among women. If, by nature, you are shy, try such an exercise: make a list of all the traits you consider positive in yourself, as well as achievements. Do you like yourself? Work until your response is positive. Why would a girl like you if you don’t? Just do not confuse confidence with arrogance.
• Talk with the woman about her. If you are interested in her, show this interest. Learn about her hobbies, job, and other details, to better understand her. Besides, it will prove your interest to her which will be highly appreciated. It is also important not only to ask her questions, but also to remember what she told you, whether it was several days or weeks ago.
• On a date, use good body language. These are well-known rules: do not cross your arms, keep eye contact, stay in the vicinity, but avoid being too close. If you lack confidence in the way you look while talking, you can try practicing in front of the mirror or camera. This may seem absolutely hilarious, however, this exercise will help you to understand the main drawbacks in your communication skills.
• Stay positively-oriented. Despite a social and political situation around, you two are at the origin of a new relationship. What can be better? Thus, there is no place for negative thoughts and statements. Do not bring up past relationships. Do not share your business or personal problems.
• Be unpredictable. It can be anything which comes to your mind: a spontaneous compliment, a nice and cute gift, unexpected date or a surprise trip for a weekend. It all depends on the budget and what you wish for. A woman will be amazed by such surprises and will remember these positive emotions for a long time.

Flirting is a personality trait which can be learned. If your first date failed, do not give up trying. In any case, self-analysis is always useful. Like at school, think of your mistakes and do your best not to repeat them. Good luck on a date!

Source: Salem-News.com Special Features Dept.